“You see, only then when you can stand on your own authority are those that are correct for you going to come into your life and accept you for what you are.
It’s the only way that we can have relationships.
You can only come through awareness and acceptance, nothing else.
And through that awareness and acceptance, if you operate correctly, if you enter into the bond correctly, then we get to really experience the beauty of what it is for us to be able to communicate to each other, to be able to in the individual sense empower each other, to bring a special quality into each other’s life.
And at the same time to know that when the chips are down, the other one’s going to be there.
We all have different qualities. We are all different.
Even this description here is deeply generic. We are each deeply unique and it’s not a matter of needing to learn what precisely that is.
You can discover it simply by experimenting with your strategy and authority and not allowing anything [else] to be your authority.
It takes great strength and [against?] the social tensions of the genetic imperative to be disciplined within yourself and to be correct but the rewards are wonderful."
~Ra Uru Hu