Seeing the Notself - in your actual life (new conversation series)
[Seeing the Notself - in your actual life]
I’ve been thinking about offering a conversation series - waiting out my emotional
Wave (geez that can be a slooow critter).
And have landed on a “yeah why not” 😄
So am now opening up registration for that.
This is HD year 10 for me - the actual anniversary is in July (as is my wedding anniversary 🧐 just noticed that 🙌🏽)
The Notself has been a big feature in the guidance I’ve successfully offered dozens of people over the years - both 1:1 and occasionally in small groups … now I mostly prefer a hybrid model - part private and part conversational with like minds and fellow experimenters.
Being able to witnessess the notself mechanisms that our Minds can and happily (and does) use to hijack inner authority - is, I think, something like 90% of the challenge related to living as ourselves.
The primary awareness to be gained is in the centers themselves - the white/undefined/open ones in particular yes, and also the defined ones.
Did you know that defined centers have Notself themes too?
Then, depending on your chart, gates that bridge a split or ones that would connect your throat can be significant pressure-wise, subject to deep conditioning and worth becoming familiar with.
And Color transference on the personality side (Motivationtion and View) that are at the root of your correct OUTER Authority - is another great (important!) place to begin to see what and who are for you. And who simply isn’t.
But… and here’s an important detail…
This is not something that can be done solo, at least not efficiently. Not so I’ve see anyway.
Rather, it’s the sharing of stories in conversation with your fellow experimenters that has the possibility to open your eyes to new ways that this personal authority hijacking is taking place every day … sometimes -
often! - in the sneakiest of ways.
And your Mind can’t be expected to step aside without some story sharing and witnessing from the outside.
So that’s what I’m envisioning.
A fresh round of conversations. Even 10 years in, my Notself conditioning continues to be discovered and peel back like an onion.
It’s not like it goes away. Nor is it something to make a villain of. Nope. It’s not the bad guy. And neither is our mind.
But rather than torture us to madness and hinder our correct decision making possibilities, the Notself can actually become a source of well - great entertainment 😄
Even when it’s inconvenient 😋
This, imho, is the absolute shortest path through to living as ourselves and ultimately, loving how we’re wired.
So yeah, registration is open.
We’ll begin the conversations the first week of May (for 3 months). It’ll be a very laid back “weekly office hours” come-when-you-can kind of thing.
Part of the time I think I may also be doing art while we chat - just fyi; I sat for the last few weeks thinking about how to do two different types of zooms, (one HD and art, one Notself) but nah, we can do both and as it interests us.
What else? 🤔
Oh! To keep this more custom priced, but also keep the 1:1 part availablelable, I’m concurrently offering an optional add-on private zoom for about 1/3 of the cost of my regular sessions.
I usually keep those solo calls for my annual folks, but I don’t mind bundling one this way too.
So … what ha think? Sound like something you’d like to come play in? Sourcing original materials will not be a problem (you can go in whaever direction you want and me and my open G can effortlessly meet you there.
Ready to have your Mind tweaked in unexpected ways?
Experience epiphanies?
Connet the dots on past experiences and see where your notself has maybe made its mischief?
Have new ideas for improved communication with the people around you? Etc…
Maybe even speak your fears and have them reframed in unique ways.
Hope so - ‘cause that’s what my Outer Authority delivers. 🙂
If none of those things are for you, well, better take a pass 🤗
Let’s see what happens next, eh?
Be sure to comment below or connectct by FB messenger if you want more details or are ready to secure your spot.
Appreciate you!
Andrea