All 2nd Lines are Waiting for Something Specific
Where are the 2nd lines in your chart?
I may investigate mine after I sit with this, I may not š
āFor the 2 thereās always something else. Thereās always something else, always. And itās not about that itās not satisfied, because you canāt anthropomorphize it that way. It isn't.
Inherent in the 2 is this refusal to be secure. Itās a refusal in a sense to really be secure.
When you think about the hermit and you think about the hermit closed off in their environment, what you know about them because you see them in the notself all the time is that they're not really closed off at all.
Theyāre protecting themselves, while at the same time they're waiting for something.
Every single 2nd line is waiting for something.
We know when the sense of the Personality that itās waiting for the call. I only have two 2nd lines, and one of them clearly for me, the 40th gate 2nd line was where I got the call.
This is what the 2nd line is all about. Not only that, but youāve got to understand something about this call. It is so specific.
This is one of the great dilemmas for anyone who is carrying a hermit Personality, the 2/4s, the 2/5s, how messed up their lives can be, because they don't know what call.
They canāt recognize it. They are not ready for it because they cannot see it or hear it or recognize it.
Oh, there's nothing more incredible than the distortion that exists in the hermit.
And why do you think they are called the hermit? Theyāre not called the hermit because of the potential of their true self.
They're called the hermit because this is the deep, deep, deep result of the notself, all these hermit, regardless of their type, angry, frustrated, disappointed, bitter, stuck away in their little places because they've gambled on all those calls and they blew up in their face because it didn't really get the call. They didn't.ā