Even shit can be turned into lemonade … can tend to require hella 🍿 though 😋
Yesterday there was a shit show of a thread or two that descended on one of the Projector groups (actually several because the person then cross posted - spreading the yuck just like a virus - in the name of not being silenced by “fascists” - yeah there was that unfortunate ish in the mix)
As a moderator of one of the groups, I got called into the fray early by a concerned (and also feeling silenced herself) Mental Projector.
It lasted most of the day.
Interesting side note - the one who caused the ruckus and eventually got escorted back up the rabbit hole by the white rabbit (there’s an Alice in Wonderland theme to this group 🙃) … wasn’t wrong in what she was trying to call attention to - it just took a bad turn, her communication skills and awareness of her own notself-ness getting all up in the way.
But the thread was illuminating to many nonetheless. In all sorts of ways.
And most recently pulled this gem (or at least what seems a gem at 4am) out of me.
It’s actually a response to the original post that was made by another gal - the one that set off the gal who got kicked out.
Which was posted by a (near as I can tell well-meaning ‘love and light because fluffy unicorns are the way’ flavored projector).
I can repost the essentially potentially “experiment derailing” words and post in the comments for reference.
But first, here’s what (hopefully) were my last words in the matter.
Also invited the original author to be guided by me, so she may be along, we shall see.
Has a good heart ❤️
Anyway - this got pulled out of my Right Mind and Outer Authority …
“Daniela’s response above called this from me - and can I just say …. what an (ironically) fruitful thread 🙃🤗
surrender is surely the way.
And also, no choice eh?
It can be lovely when bitterness naturally fades away.
But … no choice.
It can also be an important guidepost.
And again, no choice.
Unfortunately, posts like this fail to take that into account.
Which ends up “shoulding” and shaming or potentially encouraging many to gaslight their own authority.
Not sure what the solution is tbh. And I actually only “care” from a moderator’s perspective.
Because again literally no choice but for each of us to experiment and to begin to see what’s true for us.
Prettily packaged words can really play the opposite of its intention.
Words matter. Keynotes matter.
For my Design - foundation concepts matter here.
And THEN we can experiment from that solid place.
I totally get the “if you’re not Living Your Design, the world is not better off” part.
Someone, or potentially lots of someones are not being served our Outer Authority when there’s not a way for them to access it.
Not something that actually gets to have weight in our own deconditioning process.
(Not every Design is even here to care about that)
And what that Life looks like is going to vary vastly for each person.
To follow our Design is - in the end only about choosing to love ourselves.
Only from there can come our #projectorsuccess
The rest … is the rest.
How it might or might not benefit the world - is a byproduct, not a goal.
And #nochoice includes surrendering to that potentially looking like nothing our Mind thinks it ought to.”
And the words below (that seem connected to this whole episode) are from Chaitanya - to which I commented -
“I’m in awe of the succinctness” 😍 … 😁
Yes I recognize efficiency 🥰
I love you 😘 … there, I said it. 🙃
Follow your strategy and authority 🙌🏼