Individual (circuitry) people come with risk in relationships š, but then without awareness, so do we all, eh? š¤
I wrote something in one of the Projector groups on FB as a comment to someone elseās comment on this Ra piece.
(Iāll have to go find it and post a screenshot in the comments - am 1/2 asleep and just thought of that š“)
About how true this is about my husband.
Heck, I may even read this to him š (itās the only way he gets his HD vitamins š)
Thereās one other ah hah this offered. We do have a very separate/together in our own rooms existence.
Quite happily so most of the time - thereās three of us living here now (down from the 6 that was true for years prior to 2020)
And so many reasons why maybe it fits can be seen all of our charts.
Maybe I can elaborate below šš¼ or in a future zoom if anyoneās curious š
I can see that circuitry plays a big role, but thereās also some profile, environment, Type awareness, etc thatās clearly in the mix too.
Fun to be able to watch the movie šæ š
āItās very risky to connect yourself to someone who is truly only interested in themselves.
This is individuality, after all.
And unless both beings are equally interested in themselves, it doesn't really work.
Itās a real risk.
After all, it can't be a one-way empowerment. Thatās called support, and that's tribalā¦
What you're looking at in individuality is that only when empowerment is mutual, only when it's mutual, only then are you going to have a successful bond...
One of the things about individuality is that if it lasts long enough it might last forever.
An individual finds something that they like, they will not go looking for something else, whether it's a pair of clothes until it falls off their body or something they like to eat or whatever the case may be, they will stay with somebody to the end, even though in empowerment they are truly in their own worlds.
But then again, isn't that the truth?
That is purpose being fulfilled, when you're in your own bubble and you're not alone.
Thereās somebody that you can still see theyāre moving along with youā¦
Nothing will destroy an individual more and can for their whole life than to make a commitment to empower another who does not empower them in return.
When you talk about people who have broken hearts you're always talking about individuals who did not receive empowerment for the return of them empowering the other.
And for most individuals in their melancholy, because they are not collective, they do not say it's because of the other, they will blame themselvesā¦
Here you have the root of love.
And here you have the most beautiful part of what empowerment is.
This is where individual relationships can only find love.
And the answer that the individual comes up with is, it's not about finding a way to blend with your partner and become one, but it's about mutually empowering each other to be even stronger or even better, or even whatever.
In other words, the way to be with somebody else is to empower them as they empower you.
ā¦They can be so deeply, deeply melancholic, so unhappy, because these aren't people that are satisfied with sharing and support.
They need that word of love, they need that look in the eye, they need to be seen as something that is unique and special and beautiful and wonderful.ā
~Ra Uru Hu