"So, the dilemma for the triple split is the way in which they approach their potential in any kind of bond with the other.
It isn't to say that they cannot find and have a fulfilling relationship with the other, but the rules of that relationship, the way in which it is going to operate, is going to by its very nature have to be different.
In other words, that no triple split can ever afford to have someone who tries to cling to their aura, they cannot. They need to have a great deal of independence.
Otherwise, they're going to reject the bond anyway.
This is the great dilemma, the permanent bridge that the pure [single] split gets, this is the be-all and the end-all, and that direct connection of a split element in a triple split by somebody who is consistently in their aura ultimately becomes something that is uncomfortable and annoying and it gets to a point where it can easily be rejected, because the triple split is not designed to be oriented to one fixing. They're just not. This is not their thing.
No one of the many, many ways in which the different aspects of this split can be connected, it goes on and on and on, all the ways in which this can work out, this triple split isn't going to be satisfied with any one person doing this or that or whatever. They're not designed for that. They're not designed to consider that somebody who gives them the bridge is the thing. But that's their conditioning, and that ends up bringing a lot of suffering into their process.
So, psychologically there is a dilemma about one's fixed relationships with the other. For the triple split this is an enormous dilemma for them. And again it goes back to understanding the very nature of what it is to be correct within this knowledge. It starts with Strategy and Authority.
If you are a triple split, if you are correct, that person that, given your Strategy and Authority that you embrace in this life, that if it's all correct then they're going to accept what it is to be with you as a triple split and to understand that they can never truly have a great deal of influence over you.
Partnership, which is part of the mythology of the split definition, partnership is full of all of these compromises and the influencing of one partner over the other, the domination of one partner over the other, the willingness of partners to both be dominated and to do the dominating, and so forth and so on, all this kind of stuff.
This has nothing to do with the triple split definition; nothing. It makes them very different.
They need to begin to recognize their difference, which means they need to take the burden off the psychological conditioning frame, which has nothing to do with them, it's all okay for the split, but it's not okay for the triple split, and begin to see how important it is, the advantages of what it means to be able to take your time and allow the public aura to be your great ally.
You can't be a triple split and be a shutin and expect that you're going to have any sense of well-being, wellness, in your process. That's very difficult.
The triple split needs to have these opportunities in the public aura simply to be able to run a test, run a pattern through all the multiplicity of the possibilities of the connections at any given moment to be able to reassess at any given moment synthetically where one's at.
And again, it isn't something that is intended to be a conscious process. It is simply something that needs to be part of the nature of any triple split definition, and for them to understand that even in those triple splits who are not emotional, and by the way the vast majority of them are emotional, even in those triple splits that aren‘t emotional that the very nature of being a triple split demands more time, demands waiting, demands not jumping on things.
… Now, obviously this isn't about the minutiae of decision making in life, because there is a lot of minutiae, whether you wear this color or that color today, there's all this minutiae.
I‘m talking about the decisions that are truly things that change your navigation.
And for the triple split to simply understand that they gain their navigation perspective, the necessary navigation perspective, to be able to make the right calculation by taking advantage of the public aura and taking advantage of time. Easier, of course, and not, in that sense, to say that to someone who's emotional. And I say, "and not," because the not-self emotional system is not going to be helpful in this kind of a process, not something that necessarily is interested in waiting.”
~Ra Uru Hu
Thanks Oleksander