Long-term Love & the Notself
Laetitia shared this about 10 hours ago ☺️
I’m still pondering it, but thought I’d leave it here meanwhile.
Of course even what he’s describing as ‘what love looks like when it’s “happening”’ is grossly homogenized.
But I am reminded how comfy it might be for John (my defined spleen touching his open one) when we’re sitting on the couch doing our own things, or he’s regaling me with his 13/33 mundane tales of his day, that tribal me will play along most easily as long as some part of us is actually touching.
Lately we’ve been having ‘dates’ in the car on the way wherever that’s just our forefingers touching 🤭 it’s amusing.
Wanna have a date? ☝🏽
32 years later … 🤷🏻♀️
“#hdinthewild
✨ Love doesn’t fade with time, the brain reacts to long term partners as an extension of ourselves, & the not-self purpose✨
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