“I remember when I first started this with the Rave Psychology students.
They all basically saw it very quickly, because you do. Once you understand this binary you can see it very quickly.
And they said, ―But I can't get rid of it, the transference. That was the best joke for me, because I said to them, ―The point is not to get rid of it. The transference is not bad.
Again, you have to see our binary nature. We need a counterbalance. Not all things can be fixed. Sometimes you do have to have faith. Sometimes you do have to hope.
None of these things can stand on their own because we're dealing with this conceptual maia where everything is a binary. And it‘s one of these things to really grasp about us.
The thing is to see the transference, to be aware of it, because this is what's important.
The moment you're aware of the transference, you‘ve already stepped into another level of consciousness.
It is that observer that is seeing the transference and for the first time you're separating from the mechanics of your Personality and actually observing it. You're watching it at work.
I see those moments almost every day, because again, mind is mind. I watch my transference all the time. There isn't a day that doesn't go by where my mind says to me, nah, don‘t get involved in that.
How easy it is for my mind to go to the transference and say, don‘t get involved. And of course, there is an advantage for me that the transference exists. If it wasn't for that, not everything has to be confronted.
In the same way as a Manifestor I don‘t have to inform everybody about everything. So there is a balance in a sense that can come into it.
But again, I watch the transference all the time. It's always there. It never goes away.
The gift is seeing it, because every moment that I see that is another affirmation of how powerless and helpless and choiceless I really am as a being. I have no control over those mechanisms.
Those students of mine who wanted to be able to get rid of the transference, you can‘t get rid of the transference. It‘s just a mechanism.
All you can do is see it for what it is.
And all you can do is understand what is correct for you in the optimal sense mechanically and to watch it emerge, because again, you truly do not have to do anything.
The worst thing you can do with this kind of mental information is to try to work with it instead of experiencing it.
Once you understand the basic binary of your transference, just wait, you‘ll see it. You won‘t miss it. You can't miss it. It‘s the front of the frame. It‘s the way we conceptualize everything.
And the moment you see that you can begin a process of really liberating yourself because you‘re no longer responsible for what happens in that process.
You're not responsible for what your mind is conceptualizing. Think about that. What an incredible thing. We're not responsible for that.
It‘s not like we‘re directing that. This is simply what existence is and how we are interpreting the existence. But we‘re not controlling it. We‘re not deciding to think this way or that way. It‘s just built into us. It‘s just about seeing it. To see it is really to transcend it. This is what it‘s about.”
Radical Transformation Lectures
Ra Uru Hu’s Radical Transformation Clinics
via James Toon