“Compromise is not your partner's fault. They don't have Compromise. They have a defined channel. It's not their fault. It's nobody's fault. There is no blame in all of this.
Accepting somebody for who they are is the bedrock of what we really bring to any Partnership.
It's not about how you can change or he can change or she can change, or all of this will change and blah, blah, blah they're going to be a better person and they're not going to do that anymore and they're not going to annoy you in that anymore; it's not true.
The most interesting thing for me about operating correctly as yourself is that you see differently.
You're looking at the same things; stupid before enlightenment, stupid after.
You're seeing the same things, but you see it differently.
That thing you saw as a problem, it does not necessarily need to be seen that way.
It's all about awareness.
When I deal with Compromise I treat it as a Dominance, and it really works.
I just don't get involved with it. I just watch it. There is nothing else to do.
I just watch it in the same way that I watch Dominance because it teaches me a great deal.”
- Ra Uru Hu
via Chaitannya HD