"The key in all of this is really to recognize that if you don't live out your nature, you really suffer; if you don't understand the mechanics of how you operate, your life is going to be full of unnecessary pain. It just will be…
And at the moment that you can accept the way in which you operate, you can accept that there are certain things in your life that are not meant to be resolved, not meant to be acted on, not meant to be enjoyed, not meant to be done—and so what?
All the conditioners say the same thing:
You missed it!
You missed something!
You should have been there last night!
You should have done that!
You should have read this book, you'll miss something if you don't!
These are the conditioners. You missed nothing. There's nothing to miss.
When you live out your nature, you get exactly what's for you and all that stuff you think you're missing that's the stuff that brings you so much trouble in your life."
~Ra Uru Hu