
"This term, self-absorption, it’s time for me to clarify what I mean by that. It doesn’t mean they’re not paying attention to anybody else. It doesn’t mean they don’t see anybody else. It isn’t about discussing whether they're going to grow up with great social skills or not. It doesn’t have to do with any of that. It has to do with something else. It has to do with the way in which their awareness frequency works.
Remember how we look socially on the outside, regardless of our profile, is something that is conditioned by the not-self and is not the nature of the profile in the way in which it’s supposed to exist.
After all, the 1/3 is there to challenge all foundations. If there is no 1/3 there truly is no evolutionary life. It’s the basic thing to recognize. The personality needs to have what’s solid. The unconscious realizes everything is changing. This is the basis of the structure.
So, when you're dealing with the 1/3, the first thing to understand is that this self- absorption is simply the awareness frequency.
That awareness frequency, rather than trying to click into that on the outside, it's always pointed inward. And it's always pointed inward because at the very beginning of the process, the 1/3 process, everything must be tested.
And there is a deep insecurity that the test will be difficult, that one will fail, that the test will fail, that everything will fail.
There is an enormous insecurity in 1/3 infant; enormous insecurity. Its personality wants to trust everything, but can’t, because it doesn't know how to yet.
It doesn’t know how to make sure that is a safe world. And recognizes from the very beginning because of its unconscious that its mother is going to drop it or stick a diaper pin in its side.
It’s going realize right away that life is full of real dangers that can come from anywhere. And that all expectations are probably a joke. And these infants know that in their awareness frequency.
If you really want to see a 1/3 at peace you will meet them in their maturity and there is something in their life that they know deeply, and then you will meet a 1/3 at peace; sort of, as peaceful as not-selves can be.
It’s very important to understand this fundamental nature is that whatever the 1 investigates, they only investigate for themselves. It doesn’t mean you can’t have value to others. But they're doing for themselves because their awareness frequency demands that. It demands it.
So, the first thing is to understand what they really are when they come into the world.
If you have a 1/3 child and you're dealing with the mother, you have to tell the mother something that is very difficult for her to in her life. Don't lie to your child.
And I'm not talking about big lies. I'm talking about any kind of lies, white lies, and little lies. This is the most damaging thing you can do as a mother [parent] of a 1/3.
There is nothing more damaging that you can do."
~Ra Uru Hu
PS. 1/3 emo P raising a 1/3 Self P - his father has what I call his "tell you what you want to hear gate" on an undefined solar plexus. This actually explains a lot about why their relationship went a bit south.
Also points to why I've been such a stickler for honesty between me and all three of our kids. Something that's only been to their benefit in the grand scheme of things, I think 🤔
My own parents have always been exceptionally transparent. Something worth appreciating in hindsight ❤️