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Side detail - am married to a 2/4 with 59.2 😆

You’ll get the joke:

“The aspired-to role is harmony, but it’s a joke. Look at the unconscious: Harmony through Aloneness. Isn’t that wonderful? I love these people. This is really a delight.

This is where they find harmony – being left alone. For them that’s delicious. They are ready to abdicate from their relationships, they are ready to abdicate from their friendships, they are ready to abdicate from their daily duties because they really feel wonderful when they are just left alone.

It’s one of the things about them, why they can be such a powerful force, because if you can really ever get to them they bring this wave of power with them, because to mobilise these creatures is really something.

And once they get mobilised, you know, they are unstoppable – they just build up momentum. They go ploughing through. But harmony in aloneness!

Remember that the 4th line is an opportunist, and because it’s an opportunist, for the 2/4 profile, those opportunities are going to come more than any other profile.

No profile gets more attention than the 2/4. It gets an enormous amount of attention. It gets attention unconsciously from all those people that want to connect with it and be friends with it.

It gets all the attention from all the people who project on it and think that it could be this or that or the other and are always trying to encourage them.

You know, “Take this course, do this thing, have this, go there,” you know, and they are like a pinball bouncing around all of that.

And if they don’t get totally fatigued, because after all, that’s the 4th line unconscious theme, you combine the bigot and fatigue, and you say, “All these people are driving me crazy. They may all have the best intentions, but they are driving me crazy. All of you leave me alone now!”

Of course, that whole structure is there so that out of one of those forces that are doing that with them, that somebody actually rings their bell.

That they really call them out, that the opportunity is really there, and then that is their opportunity for flowering. After all, they are not meant to stay a hermit for ever. They are not!

You know, it’s a part of what keeps them sane and healthy. But after all, for them it is a trial to have to learn something, it is a trial for them to have to explain what they already know that they can’t explain. It’s a trial.

So in order for them to be involved at that level, to be an externalising force, you really have to get to them.

If you don’t get to them early, in childhood – much more difficult. Because then they simply get into that pattern of being called all the time and not paying much attention to it. Just seeing that there is just another of an endless series of people trying to get them to be something.

The other thing is the level of inadequacy that can build up in a person.

If everybody is looking at you and seeing what you could be, you begin to wonder who you are. You know, “What’s wrong with what I am and what’s wrong with me being here alone in my space doing my thing and being in harmony?

Just because I can help you, heal you, teach you, protect you doesn’t mean that I have to leave here to do that, because to leave here to do that will take me away from my harmony.” I mean, they have got their rights after all.

So it has to be something that is really profound for them. Then they are willing to do that, then they have this great missionary power where they can go out and be the ones who speak from being called out.

Not all of us can speak that way. These are the redeemed ones, these are the St Augustines, these are profligates that become saints, these are the ones that really can have a tremendous transition in their life and be an enormous force in the world. But you really have to get to them, otherwise they don’t go.

When we come to the bonding strategy of the 2/4 we are coming to a very – can be – frustrating combination. Because what we are dealing with is Shyness/Boldness as the strategic theme of the 2nd line. Now, understand that we are talking about the 59th gate, the Gate of Dispersion, the gate of our sexual strategies. These sexual strategies are genetic strategies.

It’s why so many of us, it’s why most human beings basically ask the same question, “Why did I have children with that one?” We don’t know.

That is, our genetics are demanding relationships that our person- alities or our awareness may have difficulty in comprehending. Because our genetic strategies are very, very different than the rest of us.

So when you are dealing with the 59.2 and you are dealing with this line of Shyness, this is not about being a shy person.

It’s not about being shy sexually – these people are not shy sexually. That is, once you make love to them.

But you have to get there. And to get there they have genetically a barrier that sets up the demands that you break up that barrier.

We are dealing with the classic 2/4 here: 2nd line personality. If you want to be the lover of somebody who is a 2nd line, you have to break down their barrier.

In other words, you have to go after them and you have to be insistent. And if you don’t allow them to break down your barrier, this is not the right genetic material. In other words, it is just genetics.

At the unconscious level you have got the Confidante or Not.

So you have got this theme of friendship before sexual intimacy can take place – in other words, a theme of friendship in order to be able to assess whether or not you can have or not a valid relationship with the other at an intimate level.

So the theme of the 2/4 is that the ideal lover for them is a lover that is going to break down their barrier, not to make love to them but to be their friend.

To be their friend and, at the moment that the 2/4 has somebody who wants to be their friend and goes to the trouble of breaking down that barrier to get into that friendship, then out of that can come a very deep, a very profound intimacy at the sexual level.

But it can only work for the 2/4 if it works out of that program, otherwise it doesn’t work for them.

So whenever you see the 2nd line in a profile you have to understand that this is a dynamic theme. That it’s very important for these people that they recognise that in order to have the right partner that that partner has to come and break down your barrier.

You know, one of the things that Human Design allows us, first of all from the point of view of already being involved in relationships – it gives us an opportunity to understand our relationships and to be able to work successfully with them.

In other words, to be able to see those things that are there and can never be changed. Because we are not here to change the other.

We are here to honour the other as they honour us for what we are.

And love is something that is not controlled – love is just geometry. It is simply a meeting.

It’s not about selection, it’s not about choice. It is what happens to us.

So, at one level we have the understanding through this knowledge to be able to recognise our partner, to have our partner recognise who we are, and in that be able to accept each other.

But more important than that, when we are dealing with children who are coming into sexual maturity, for them to understand through their profile what works for them and not to be frustrated and not understanding what works for them, so that they can have healthy relationships from the beginning.

It doesn’t mean that they have to be relationships for their life, but they have to be healthy relationships from the beginning.

That’s two things.

One is that you can’t enter into a relationship correctly unless you enter according to your type. There is no other way to enter into a relationship properly.

And the second thing is that according to your type to be able to see its alignment to your profile, in order for you to be able to see how this intimacy works out as purpose in your life.

The real dynamic intimacy for a 2/4 is always going to come from the other coming to them, breaking down their barrier.

If you know that is a strategy genetically, if you know that that is invariable, you can’t do anything about it – you don’t have to be frustrated ...

The moment you enter into any kind of relationship correctly, it doesn’t mean it has to last long, doesn’t mean it has to be wonderful, but it’s correct, and correct relationships are the only things that really matter for us.

So, pay attention to this whole thing about understanding your aura.

Don’t just say, “Oh, my goodness! I’ve got an open this or that and they put that in me.” Be very clear about what you are putting in them and understand it has its job, it does its job, and you get exactly what’s correct for you.”

~Ra Uru Hu