“Compromise is very difficult.
Compromise is a ‘problem’.
I’ve done endless numbers of relationship’s charts, and the moment l look at a relationship chart, because I’m dealing with the not-self, I go immediately to compromise because compromise tells me the one thing that will destroy a relationship.
Dominance allows you to see the other. [one chart has a full channel defined, the other has that channel in white]
The electromagnetic gives you this attraction and repulsion. [one chart has one gate of a given channel colored in and the other has the gate on the other end colored in]
The electromagnetic is responsible, in a sense, for setting the spark of a relationship and keeping the spark alive, but it will never end the relationship.
Compromise is a place, in people who are not aware, where the not-self gets to the point where it’s “so far” and “no further” and the relationship collapses.
Compromise is very difficult. One partner has the whole channel; the other, partner has a part of the channel.
Compromise is difficult wherever it appears in the body graph, but when it appears in connection to a gate of love, ah, you’d better be yourself because if you’re not yourself, it’s going to be very difficult.
It’s simply the reality, compromise is something where you’re always hitting the same wall. Always. You cannot intellectually surrender to that. Nobody can.
You can’t because it’s not reasonable. It’s unfair, and part of love is that love is unfair.
Though nothing has thought me more than compromise.
You know, I’m an ego manifestor. I want things my way. The moment that you meet compromise, you know right away how funny that is. There’s nothing you can do. Nothing. You get out your atomic bomb and you try to blow it up; doesn’t work' l use all my powers of seduction; doesn’t work. I use all my intellect; doesn't work.
I have met many 17/62's in my life.
[Ra’s chart had 62 defined - this is also a compromise that John and I have - I have the channel, him the 62, it’s a beast 🤓]
They’re the ones that are my favorite. They have opinions, and no matter how much l tell them:
“You’re being an absolute fucking idiot. You don’t know what you’re talking about. This is not true. This is utterly ridiculous…”
They look at you like: “You have a problem? Don’t you see that I’ve got it?” You bang and you bang, and nothing.
Now, if you don’t understand that, you kill them. You go nuts. You leave them. You walk, because compromise is like that. And yet, at the same time, it’s magic!
Oh, I love having compromise in my life because it always reminds me who I am. These things don’t bother me, I’m awake. I watch the movie. I see how it works. It’s okay. What to do?
Human beings are going to be what they are, and I like that, as long as they live it. It’s the not-self that I don’t like and all the confusion and all the pain that comes out of the not-self. To accept ourselves: it’s so easy.
We have the mechanics, and then when you get into this kind of stuff, you don’t have what people had, which is not a great relationship: a relationship full of suspicion and tensions, misunderstanding and lack of appreciation.
The best qualities of the two of them and the value of who the two of them are for each other, the transcendent quality that comes through a relationship is lost. It’s lost. You never get to see that.
And after all, that’s what love is about. Love is about getting us to the point that we realise that what happens has nothing to do with the I and the other. But it’s what happens between the I and the other. It’s the magic' You don’t get there as the not-self. You really don’t. You just end up in the morass.
Compromise is something that is very, very difficult in relationships, and when you hove compromise and it’s related to a gate of love, then you really have something that has to be dealt with.
Throughout my career when I’ve been dealing with partnership analysis and I’ve been looking at dealing with a couple and my movie with the couple as I sit between them, you see what’s there.
My eye always goes to the compromise because I know that in the not-self couple sitting beside me, the place of deterioration in the relationship, the place where they’re having their great dilemma is all associated to that compromise.
So it’s a very important thing to keep in mind when you’re looking at the way connectivity operates.
The other thing l want you to keep in mind, whenever you’re looking at the way in which we connect, looking at dominance, electromagnetics and compromise, obviously, these connections take place in places other than where there are gates of love.
Obviously. When you’re looking at a partnership, it’s very important to see what’s the priority. ln other words, if there is on electromagnetic in a gate of love, that’s going to be dominant to an electromagnetic that’s in a non-place of love. It’s a very, very different kind of connection,
The same is true for compromise.
Compromise in a non-gate of love is actually much easier for the not-self to deal with. They’re just annoyed. It’s much easier for the not-self to deal with it than compromise through a gate of love.
So, there is a hierarchy when you’re looking at connectivity. In other words, you’re going to find electromagnetics, dominances, or whatever in places other than where the gates of love are.
Recognize that when you’re looking at a partnership, in any relationship, there is a hierarchy, that compromise in a gate of love is more problem than compromise in a non-gate of love.
Electromagnetic is really more sparky when it’s through a gate of love than when it’s through a non-gate of love.
Dominance through a gate of love is much more: these are people that really see that everybody loves their other. They see that the quality is shining. Τhese are much more powerful than when they’re in non-gates of love.
With a partner, if you don’t have a gate of love that’s connected, those other aspects then take on that quality, sort of. It’s sort of a way of getting there. I know couples that are hooked that way, where their electromagnetic is in a non-gate of love.
And of course, basically what happens is that develops into a kind of extension of friendship. It becomes a sort of level of friendship, rather than that being the deep bonding that is possible through connectivity relative to gates of love.
Remember something about compromise. Whenever you’re looking at a relationship with anyone, with anyone, it doesn’t matter what relationship that is, always look at the compromises.
Since you’re dealing with a not-self, when you look at the compromises, you understand the fundamental tension in a relationship that will, sooner or later, destroy the relationship, unless you’ve got people that can deal with that and recognize what it is.”
~Ra Uru Hu
@Carizma22 3/5 splenic P, has said yes to sharing this 😍
I love it when I get to be privy to an ‘experiment progress report’ from one of our Locals members.
Wanna celebrate with me? 🥳🤩🙌🏽
This next one is a tale of Carole’s undefined solar plexus adventures, originally posted in a Projector fb group.
Cool witnessing Carole! 🤗
Thread gist in comments (screenshots) and a somewhat messy screen grab video of the video recommended in one of the OP comments she received included below (above?🤓)
And there’s a short video of @BeyondBeautiful and me first talking about “avoiding confront and truth” which includes a story I often have told about John and the very first real time glimpse I saw this undefined solar plexus dealie irl. Can find.
Blew my mind.
I know there are several splenic Authority folks in here, maybe you have stories to share too?
"Some ideas take decades"
This is pretty inspiring. She reckons she's finally finished her apprenticeship at 70 💜
Fun add-on HD irl example - this was shared in Vanessa's group on FB, The Art of Being You by another appreciative group member (thank you Kathrin 🤗), and I first watched it a few hours ago.
I immediately thought what a great share it would be in here 🤩 but it landed pretty quickly on my 'roundtooit list.
Maybe to get shared here, maybe not. Tbh, the hold up was that I didn't really want to share a FB link in here, so I was looking (investigating) around to see if it was on another platform.
Hadn't found it yet.
Then it turns out that @NaimR wasn't able to view it from Canada (someone is blocking it for Canada ? wha?) and she said as much on the thread in Vanessa's group.
And you know what kicks in?
My Design (19/49 and Markets internal in particular), which had me heading this way anyway - at some point ... maybe... but I always get a little boost of focus from ...
There were three roller coasters 🎢 we had on or radar for the last hour before the rides closed.
Wasn’t to be, but we did find this nice place to sit and wait out the deluge that started right after we grabbed a great smoked BBQ supper.
And ooh it cooled everything off perfectly. And gave us some rest before we found our way back to the car (which was parked on the very first row of priority parking 🥳)
Ahhhh nothing to do, so much nothing to do 🥳🥰🍿
This is a post and audio from @BeyondBeautiful - Valerie Montgomery, Self Projected Projector
"I wanted to make this breakfast and found myself rushing.
Now, you might be interested to know I have Alternating Determination, which means I need to do things “One Thing At A Time,” which turns out to be the title of the song I made up to shift the energy of starting to make this breakfast.
I also have an Undefined Root, so it always feels like I need to get rid of the pressure. Also known as feeling rushed to do things.
It would have been lovely to have my cat fix my breakfast, and I had the time, so..
Also being Self Projected my authority comes out through my speaking, or in this case, singing."
Great awareness and share, thank you Valerie! 💜Not sure that's the right title for this, but it's what came out so I'm rolling with it.
This story began in a FB group. Where many of my stories do.
I can't actually remember the thread or how we ended up in messenger, but the reason we did was because 5/1 Projector with Gate 1 on an undefined G center ... had music of hers to share but hasn't been able to share it so far.
Am still waiting to see if the rest of the story gets shared with me.
So she asked me what sort of music I liked and did I want something more abstract (I think it was) or a vocal cover. I chose vocal cover and she picked this one.
I felt it to my core.
Not sure if part of that was related to some of what she'd already (not intentionally) told me ... 5th line folks can take a lot of patience to draw out - that's been my experience so far anyway.
Some feel interesting enough to spend the energy on :) That's true here.
A kind of sidenote to this is that both my Uranus Opposition (40ish yo) and Chiron (50ish yo) charts carry a 3/5 and it feels like, though I'm not a 5th line - I do sort of get ...
‘For the nine-centered being, my word for healing is alignment.’
“Left-Brain/Right-Mind, it is those beings in this quadrant [see image] that will have the most difficult time settling into their Right-ness, because they do have a Left-brain, and it's a busy, busy brain.
And if they‘ve been conditioned, that conditioning really creates dilemmas for them, because it makes it so easy for them to think that they should be Left-minded, that they should be strategic in the way in which their mind operates.
The only way that these beings are going to function correctly is when their brain system is healed.
Now, for the nine-centered being, my word for healing is alignment. It really is about alignment.
You can only accomplish that when that brain system is aligned to the way it's intended to work with its Right-ness. You can only do that through Primary Health System. You can only do that through PHS. It is only through PHS that ultimately you can realign your brain system to what is correct for you.
You are the first ...
"It’s about allowing you to get to that place in your passenger consciousness where you're watching the conditioning rather than being lost in it.”
“I find emotional people hilarious, even when they’re the most screwed up people on the planet [said the 5/1 splenic Manifestor].
Hilarious; 'Look at that person going through their wave'.
If you don't have something, it doesn't have to be your problem in life. [Instead] It’s what you [get to] learn, it’s what you get to see, it’s what you get to watch.
You know, it's what the movie is all about for you and gives quality to your development as a conscious being.
What's very important is that, if you trust your strategy and authority, you will see that you have time to fulfill the privilege of why you're here.
Which is to be where?
It’s just to see. So this is a seeing technique.
It’s about allowing you to get to that place in your passenger consciousness where you're watching the conditioning rather than being lost in it.
Because you don't have to be ...
Yesterday, @mellijae shared a graphic from 64Keys and it reminded me that there's a hashtag in here for #theplanets
Here's a direct search link -
https://planetandrea.locals.com/?search=%23theplanets
If you're interested in planetary placements in your chart - those 11 posts are a great place to begin. :)
by Richard Rudd
"There is one big key to understanding Projectors, and it can only be found by looking at the bigger picture.
We know that statistically, Projectors make up 21% of the population. That means that for every five people, more or less, there is one Projector.
Those are interesting numbers, especially when they are considered within the context of how Gene Pools operate.
There is a mysterious circuit within the Bodygraph that is curiously known as the WA. The WA holds the secret to the choreography of all human gene pools.
One day, when these aspects of Human Design are explored in more depth, we will be able to see how groupings of individual designs come together in the same way as cells bind together to create the organs within our bodies.
For those who baulk at the idea that we have no choice, this is frightening stuff.
The WA shows how different human designs are collectively organised and herded together to perform certain functions within the greater body of humanity.
Imagine then, that humanity is a body like your own body. There are only 4 types of cells, each with their own sub-programming.
At one extreme, you have a small amount of ‘rogue’ cells, independent bodies that are designed to operate outside the loop of the mainframe programming. Ironically however, these manifestor cells are just as dependent upon the whole as any other type. They are simply programmed to appear independent.
At the other extreme, you have a tiny percentage of early-warning cells – these unusual cells have no programming of their own but are designed to take accurate readings of any cellular environment they move through.
In every sub-culture you will find a few of these cells reflecting the health of the local environment. Their role is to warn the overall intelligence of the body of any potential disruptions to the organism. They are called reflector cells.
The bulk of the cellular life of the body (91%) is made up of the two most common kinds of cell – generator cells and projector cells.
These 2 types are designed to interlock with each other. The generator cells collectively create the life of the organism. They are pure energy cells buzzing day and night, maintaining and building the whole.
Projector cells are unique. They have no propulsion of their own, so they drift around on the endless energy currents created by the generator cells.
You might imagine how easy it would be for a projector cell to feel that it had no purpose within the body.
However, each projector cell actually has a very specific purpose (some have more than one), but that purpose can only be realised when certain energy cells (generators) dock in with the projector cell to receive instructions.
Since the projector has no propulsion, it is powerless to initiate this process, but has to allow the generator cells to recognise them and dock in within their own timing. This recognition process takes place through a coded lock and key programme built into these 2 types at birth.
In other words, every projector holds multiple keys that fit an enormous array of locks. When a key does not fit a lock it is very obvious!
Through the knowledge of the WA, we know that the basic genetic unit is 5. These human groupings of mainly generators and projectors are also known as ‘Pentas’.
The nuclear family is a family of five.
Statistically, that is four generators and one projector. As an archetype, the role of this fifth projector is to maintain the stability of the 4 generators.
Right, this next part is where it gets spooky, so hang on to your seats and try and stay with me!…
Just as this fifth projector draws together the 4 generators to form a penta, this penta then takes on a life of its own. It also seeks something greater to dock into, and this is known as an OC16.
Pentas (groups of 5 human beings) seek out another projector, known as an alpha. Alpha projectors naturally dock together with three pentas, making 16 people (including the alpha).
The moment you have 16 people together, you actually have the foundation of an entire gene pool, which then continues to grow exponentially.
Right. I am going to stop there. Whether you were able to follow any of that or not, I am trying to make a point – which is that if you are a projector, you are genetically coded to have others (specifically generators) recognise you and approach you.
This is the foundation of the success of humanity as a species. The projector’s role is pivotal for life to be coherently organised.
But there is a great irony to it all for the projector – which is that there is nothing for them to do until they are recognised.
Every projector knows when the key fits. Every cell in their body lights up.
They also know when it only ‘sort of’ fits.
Those are the critical moments for projectors. If the fit is not perfect, they have to smile sweetly and turn away.
So how long does a projector have to wait? Well, forever.
There is a deep secret for projectors going through their deconditioning – that is, waiting itself transforms the cells.
The relief of not trying to make keys fit when they do not want to fit, releases a huge pressure from the projector’s life.
But it is also clear from my own experience of observing projectors that they are not always able to immediately throw away keys that do not fit.
Sometimes those keys may provide their livelihood, and they have to hold on to them until they find the correct keys to replace them. That takes courage – to wait knowing something is wrong and you are powerless to change it.
I have a vast admiration for any projector going through their deconditioning, and I have also learned that I can never move forward in life without the presence of projectors in key roles around me.
Projectors, if you cannot be patient, there is no hope for any of us…"
This is a little outside of my 'care' zone, but can see the things we've trusted faltering.
I think Human Design is here to offer people awareness to be able to weather what would otherwise feel like impossibly stormy times.
Lucky us 🤗
Also, what a cool picture Chaitanya found 😍
- A
"The knowledge was given so that human beings could be equipped to live in an age in which there was nothing they could trust.
This is what the Cross of Planning has brought us. It’s brought us an age of, within reason, trust.
That the trains will run on time, that the electricity will be there, that all of those things will work, that our children will have teachers in their schools, that the garbage will be picked up and on and on and on.
All the things that the Cross of Planning has brought us, the institutionalization of science and the spreading of all kinds of technologies that enhance the potential for the increase in human population, the increase in the potential of the gene pool, the increase in the potential for the unusual, the mutative.
Human Design is not about the time of the Cross of Planning. Human Design knows the plan. It’s not about that at all. It's about bringing the possibility of the richness of life to the next generation.
If the stellar family teaches us anything it’s that even the gods, even the remotest forces in the stream are concerned about the generations and the movement of information.
There are certain stars in the sky that could not exist until other stars had died. The fact that human beings and certain brain functions, elements in our brain, that can only exist after the death of stars, we are so deeply connected to them. We live very close to one. That is our shelter and our light."
- Ra Uru Hu
