I find myself waiting to be correctly invited to interesting places 🤷🏻♀️
(‘Perfect’, as I can imagine it so far, looks like all I have to do is be present - arrangements taken care of, costs reduced or nonexistent … that theme park trip with middle daughter and her bf a couple months ago set the experience tone)
Edit to add: still doesn’t mean I’m going anywhere - that’s for my inner authority to chew on should it appear - more like I’ve been released from thinking about the when/where/if.
“For an open G center, place is exceptionally important because it will condition them more than a person with defined G (internal consistency in love, direction and self).
First of all it is not easy to find your place if you have an open G, yet to find the right place(s) is crucial because it will determine the quality of love, direction and identity.
The first thing to understand is that the right place isn’t one place since there are different places for different things. The open G is not fixed. They can have different variations of love, direction and identity.
To understand that is to see it as a strength and not a weakness. They shouldn't try to be consistent like people with a defined G.
Secondly, finding the right place usually is a process of elimination through finding the wrong places. It always comes down to living your strategy.
When you truly give up trying to control the process the place finds you. And places you never would have considered turn out to be actually very good for you. Likewise, places you thought were good turn out to be horrible.
Therefore by using your strategy you will find those places that will allow you to express a consistent identity within the situation. It is important to understand that the identity is fixed only within the situation. There needs to be a flexibility for the open G.”
- Ra Uru Hu
via Ioana Chiriac
Image from Lorgar