AARQ - Projectors are only here for the other? š¤
[AARQ = Andrea answering random questions]
This wasnāt even a question, more like me correcting a foundation piece for the collective (not even for the person whose comment pulled this from me).
Letās call it my 27.1 exalted (my P Sun) Outer Authority ā¦ the keynote is āselfishnessā - Iām gonna add the short description of that in the second image ā¦ it comes up in nearly every conversation I have to one degree or another - this constant balancing of taking care of oneselfā¦ so that others may continue to be taken care of.
My tribal 19/49 is likely also highly in the mix too.
Anyway - if you wanna follow along here, read the first image and then this writing below, which is what I commented.
Interesting to note - emotional definition ā¦ her comment did catch my attention the first time I read it (yesterday I think?) but there was no energy to do anything. Plus totally not invited so - there had to be clarity of personal energy first.
So I passed it by.
What happened this morning was, I was tagged in another comment on the same thread ā¦ that brought me back (with recognition- oop thereās the energy to maybe add something more to the thread - the OP only had resistance so I stopped engaging her, but there were multiple likes on my own comment on this thread - maybe thatās another AARQ - so my collective sharing was correct feeling, no bitterness)
Anyway - that brings us here:
āthis is the second time I read this.
And it feels like a couple things youāre grappling with could maybe become clearer over time, and no invite to poke around so Iām going to just agitate one piece.
Itās the part about not being here for ourselves. Itās a bit of a 2 sided coin thing - a possibility of synergy- not this or that, ourselves or them.
We are absolutely here to be ourselves. Itās when interfacing with the world that āas a projectorā is the point.
We are here to master that interface - as it arrives, or not.
And the irony is that, the more we are that - correctly, as ourselves, āfor the otherā, the more we can come to be able to recognize ourselves.
Itās through that interface with the other (and not just any other, though the ones who recognize us are far more enjoyable than the ones who donāt) - thatās how we come to recognize ourselves.
So essentially - we are here āfor the otherā so that we might recognize ourselves.
THAT, imho, is the big pay off possibility.
What you were told (or heard/understood so far) was incomplete.ā
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