There’s no avoiding transference
"Again, as I mentioned earlier, I think most people think that the goal of this is to eliminate the mental transference; in other words, to get rid of it.
There is an assumption that this technique of being able to recognize it and to watch it is the way you get rid of it.
Well, we do not get rid of conditioning.
Nobody gets rid of conditioning, or at least nobody gets rid of the mechanics of conditioning.
You have an open center, it is always going to be impacted regardless of whether you're correct or not.
The fact that you have a mind means it is going to transfer.
Yet, one of the things to understand about this is that observing transference is the point, not ending it; observing it.
It is the same thing with nodal [View/Perspective] distraction. It is something to observe.
Number one, the more you observe the phenomena, the less impactful the phenomena is - to the point it becomes a part of the way you develop your experiential wisdom and you learn to see and to watch the way your mental system operates.
The transference will never go away.
I live with a partner who has exactly the opposite of mine.
Transference is the most natural thing to see as a phenomenon, but it doesn't do anything to me.
I don't make decisions with my mind. I watch it.
And I watch how easily it shifts away from the transference that is momentary and goes back to what is its natural state.
It‘s about the observing.
You need to be able to pay attention to your perspective [view].
This is another level of training for the mind.
It's another technique.
It‘s just the extension of Color transference. It‘s looking for that distraction.
It‘s beginning to get a feel for when you are distracted.
I know it all the time. I can always feel the distraction, because for me is very simple.
I go from the 6 to the 3. That‘s such an obvious thing to me.
It's so obvious, because it‘s not where I‘m at, so it‘s very obvious, the winner/loser movie, because distraction is not clever and distraction is just distraction.
It is a very, very powerful thing to be aware of.
One of the things that is interesting about observing your own distraction is that— sorry I digress, but it‘s a valid point…
It‘s what I notice about anger as a Manifestor, myself being a Manifestor.
When I was not-self, if you made me angry it might not be something I could shake for a very long time. Just being able to think about it would make me angry all over again.
And thinking about it a year later could make me angry all over again.
What I've noticed in 21 years now of my process is that I still get angry.
It's the chemistry of being a Manifestor.
The anger lasts between five seconds, and if it really, really pisses me off, it might last a half a minute, maybe, and then it's gone.
But, the chemistry has to be released.
We are a very complex form. It is not our purpose to eliminate conditioning. It's not.
Again, it‘s one of these misconceptions.
Conditioning is delicious.
The only thing that makes life interesting is what we take in. It‘s not about eliminating anything.
It‘s about no longer being controlled by the authority of everything.
It‘s about living according to your own authority and observing the phenomena."
-Ra Uru Hu