Each child (you) are truly unique š¤
āFrom the moment of birth, all children are being intentionally and unintentionally conditioned by parents, siblings, relatives, teachers, leaders, friends, acquaintances and strangers. Young children are very vulnerable. They look to adults for understanding, acceptance and guidance. The first seven years of life are extremely important.
It is during this time that the patterns of their lives are established. As adults, each of us has many deeply ingrained habits learned from a lifetime of conditioning. Our habits are difficult to resist and the older we get the more difficult it becomes. The process of de-conditioning, of unlearning behavior and attitudes that contradict our true nature, can seem long and difficult. The information contained in Human Design is really for children.
When children are taught who they are at a very young age and encouraged to live according to their true nature, they live a very different life than what we have lived. They learn to love themselves and to move through life with greater ease than most of us have ever known.
Knowing your own design and that of your children, unalterable, genetically-driven family dynamics are revealed. Seeing what cannot be altered in the family dynamics, you are freed from trying to change the unchangeable and can focus on alternative problem-solving. Seeing each family memberās design in context of the whole family, everything begins to make sense: why little Johnny plays so quietly when he is alone and starts bouncing off the walls as soon as you have visitors.
Why you feel like exploding when Jimmy feels angry, even though you are not an angry person. Why you feel Judy's sadness so deeply that it is almost unbearable for you, but you don't with your other children. What can be revealed by looking at your chart and your childrenās charts can bring great relief to a parent.
Often as parents, we tend to compare our children. To see the charts of your children laid out on the kitchen table is a mind-blowing experience. You will see confirmation of your experience of them: each child is truly unique.ā
- Ra Uru Hu
via Chaitanya HD