Conditioning is not the enemy.
"Remember something about the nature of conditioning:
Conditioning is not the enemy. Conditioning is not bad, conditioning is not to be eliminated, conditioning is everything.
It is what we call life.
It’s absolutely gorgeous.
It’s just about not being identified with what is conditioning in your life, but it is not about not experiencing it or taking advantage of it.
It’s not about eliminating conditioning, it’s about eliminating the ignorance of the conditioning.
You see, any center that is open in you is your opportunity for wisdom. This is your opportunity through that filtering process that once you stop identifying with what’s moving through you, you can take advantage of what’s moving through you.
The way we learn Human Design, and it’s the way we have to learn the Human Design, at first the conditioning is truly the enemy because this is what happens to us.
We get this revelation of “Oh my God, this is what has happened to me and they did that to me or it did that to me.”
Like you, I went through the same process. I went through the process of my great distaste for being controlled through those open centers of mine. And that sense in me, given that I have three gate of aloneness, to say, “Well, the hell with all of them, I’m just going to stay out of the aura.”
But of course you can’t; you can’t.
Not only can you not because you cannot avoid the program, but you can’t because it’s life. It’s no fun without all that stuff no matter how you’re defined or undefined. It’s part of what we’re here for."
Thanks Chaitanya