I used to call these people Askholes - now, thanks to HD, I understand. š
So many HD mechanical possibilities but here are a few -
- no invitation
- no recognition
- deaf gates
- mental or self P (talking Authorities arenāt always about seeking outside influence - next to never imho)
- guidance looks different than you imagine
- you donāt actually know what value your advice added (are you attached to the result?)
- timing for the other
- their Inner Authority guided them in another direction
- Notsef themes hijacking their Inner Authority <ā often
For starters.
For me (with Fear motivation and possibility view ā¦ but an Open G)
I can see direction possibilities and am right in my wheelhouse when it comes to gaining courage around whatever it is the other personās Authority decides in the end.
But how we get there and what the outcome is - not my business.
Gaining courage is really the big win I think.
Courage to live as yourself.
That and dreaming up practical possibilities for the moment by moment stuff.
Reframing with words along the way.
Talking to people about the Notself.
These are some of the the ways my days are well spent.
Can you think of any other āreasonsā?