Outer Authority can be like AARQ - the tip of your nose - so close you can’t see it & the very thing that’s easy to take for granted. So mundane - to you.
So here’s a confession/observation.
There’s some Gate in my chart that has this “duh it’s so obvious” flavored arrogance (it’s Notself practically by Design) that without awareness of the uniqueness of each and every body, is just plain ugly.
The ugly version (and I oughta find this Gate so I can quote it correctly, you’ll see what I mean I think 🤔) …
The ugly version, and I remember this intolerance coursing in my bitter projector veins as a child/youth - mostly related to school…
It came out (and stayed in for that matter 🙄) as a sort of arrogance for “lesser beings” … “stupid” people … road rage … being a know-it-all, a sincere hatred of my Stepfather, who it turns out basically oozed my Transference (Need) and needed to be (and essentially was) well liked by pretty much everyone. Except Andrea 😜
So many things annoyed me about his literal just being - it never went away. We were not meant to live together at all. Distance was the only solution. He made my Mom happy though so, whatever 🤷🏻♀️
I can see now how ridiculous it all was and again how possibly critically important it was that I was born into the family I was - uber into people being celebrated and encouraged to be themselves. Period.
I shudder to imagine how I could have turned out without that as a baseline. Seriously.
But I totally digress. Funny the things that bubble out when I just start typing 😄
What brought me to this post is the thread - more specifically, the AARQ (Andrea answering random question) moment I’ve captured in these screenshots.
It seems the most mundane of mundane and obvious thing to me … and yet, not being impatient that what seems so obvious to me … reveals that it’s not so obvious, and that I am a certain sort of filter.
We are all of us our own certain sort of filter.
It’s knowing that which makes genuine tolerance possible, that offers us grace for the other. That allows what seems nonsensical and ridiculous to be true for other people to be “okay”
I have no doubt that without the exact lineage I hail from (people, who whatever reason - primarily immediately observable on my Mom’s side - were so naturally inclusive in their very bones - my Dad’s side had its independent thinkers too), that that Gate’s energy would have been THE focus of my deconditioning 💯 lol … heck could easily have never met and instantly recognized Human Design without that Gate being put in check (correctly conditioned) from Day 1.
Yep, I can see an alternate time line (my possibility view and open head love to think about stuff like this), where that could have been missed completely and I’m not here to deliver this particular Outer Authority we get to enjoy today 🥳🤗😅
No choice of course, and my Grinch Gate doesn’t really care about accolades (hence the giggle on the end there 🤷🏻♀️😄) … because literally No Choice.
Just things to see, or not. 🍿🍿🍿
Bottom line, what I came here to say is - the things that are so obvious to us that we can feel impatient with people who it’s not so obvious for - there’s literal value there.
It’s just hard for us to even appreciate it - because we genuinely can’t see the tip of our nose.
This piece of a thread that I’ve copied over is a perfect example.
Do you see what I mean? 🤔
For clarity, if it matters…
The person asking for clarification is not the same person who asked the original question.
Looks like you’ll have to click on the picture to be able to read the screenshots.