We begin with a comment from Sjef 4/6 Reflector which I found under a Ra Quote that Chaitanya posted with this picture.
Sjef wrote -
“If the Reflector child is crying, someone in the family kicked them
If the reflector child is laughing, someone gave them monies/cookies
Don't ever pretend I want to be in the middle of a circle, cause I really don't want to feel all of you (don't be daft!)
Each Reflector will reflect other [their own] things, not one Reflector will ever reflect -everything- that is in the environment around them (don't be stupid).”
Next we continue to the Ra quote in question -
“The reflector child is the barometer for the whole family. If the reflector child is crying, someone in the family is sad or emotionally down.
If the reflector child is laughing and skipping along, those around him or her are feeling good. The reflector child reflects everything that is in the environment around them. In school, they want to sit in the middle of the circle.
It is their natural place. NEVER rush a reflector child to decide anything. They need a lot of time, a whole month, before they can know if something is right for them or not.
Parents need to learn patience to be able to allow this child the time he or she needs to reflect on things.
This is the link Sjef references in Image 2
https://mcha.nl/2015/07/29/moonblog-58-4-focusing/
Side note - Jen in image 2 has a Reflector toddler currently :)