A guest post from Elise Duarte
“I come from a family of some generators and notself hard-working projectors.
Sometimes you’ve got this flashbacks through the current things happening.
My daughter was at home cause she’s ill. My father came to accompany [stay with] her when I was at work.
She’s a 3/5 generator but she’s very in touch with her authority and she is also strong in the things she prefer.
So she asked me to send my father a message that she was ill cause otherwise she was afraid they will go out , cause that always happens and she wants to chill.
Okay ! Fine ! Send the message and got to work.
Got a message back : we’re going the movies in the city.
So I took her 3 days from school and now she’s going to the city. 🤦♀️
And I got this flash back of myself , tired , sometimes really disassociated, following very active people as a kid
I [had] a lot of frustration , disappointment in my family ‘cause I didn’t like it enough and I didn’t like to go to the beach , the movies and after it to dinner and after it for icecream and after that a walk 🤦♀️😅
I was already tired from the 🏖
I could live 3 weeks on the experience from sea and sun and the ambiance , draw about it , make a dance from the sounds
( this is me now , also )
My daughter is a generator it is a bit different for her. She keeps on repeating her boundaries and be strong willed so my family not always likes that and she doesn’t care about that.
But what I observe is that my health broke down at young age.
And at 30 it was so bad I got several surgeries ( heart ) and from there , you have to deal.
So I guess that some projectors are even more sensitive. Maybe the quad right design , the 6/2 maybe the undefined root , or the indirect light.
Well I am all [of those things]
Looking at the notself projectors in my family they are resilient and active.
I have some family members ( projectors ) that are really really active , every day , and 70 +
Having this knowledge as an experience of myself I feel really an urge to share , to share to others and let others share , that you never know if the projector ( child ) is really gonna survive the homogenous world with generators or notself.
I don’t have projector kids , so I can’t raise them.
And I learn a lot from my generator kids.
Something beautiful would be if my experience would support other projectors ( maybe in their teens or twenty’s ) oh, I really thought I was resilient and strong , and I had strong ethics , we never stayed home ill and we never rest at day .
So I had a long way to found out [recognize] my design.
Anyway
💛 love your projector strategy 💛
And if you have more projectors around , it’s such a gift to support to follow s & a ( I like to do this )
even when the s & a question seems stupid or repetitive.
This is what’s the beauty of being in the projector group supported by other projectors.
They understand.
I experienced not - self myself in a huge influential way on my life.
It’s good to share and to respect s & a”